Holidays can be a stressful time for any number of reasons. We may have (unrealistically) high expectations for a "perfect" celebration. The loss of a loved one, a job or a significant relationship may leave us feeling down, not really wanting to celebrate at all. Lack of resources, loneliness or clinical depression may also interfere with our enjoyment of the season. Here are some suggestions and resources for surviving and finding joy in the holiday season.
Feeling Lonely This Year?
Reach out and connect or reconnect with someone special to you
Try volunteering to help others (nashvillerescuemission.org, chd-nashville.org, secondharvestnashville.org, uso.org)
Seek out someone to share your thoughts and feelings with
Create community (Play a game with others online, share a meal outdoors)
Get a pet if you are prepared to care for one, or offer to pet sit for someone
Telephone supportive people - family or friends
Send some personal notes/cards
Spend some time with nature and in the sunshine when there is some!
10 Tips for Dealing with Holiday Blue for the divorced (divorcenet.com)
Start planning your holiday now
Don't withdraw from key relationships
Connect to the spirit of the holiday
Be good to yourself
Don't call your ex on impulse
Serve and help others
Savor instead of overeating
Get out in nature
Don't allow yourself one-night stands
Call an old friend as a surprise
Do you have other suggestions on ways to handle the holidays?
Additional Resources:
Caplan, M. When Holidays are Hell!: A Guide to Surviving Family Gatherings. (Hohm Press, 1997
Dummer, Lucinda A. Christmas Makes me Crazy: A Spiritual and Practical Guide to Enjoying the Holidays (New Ideas for Happier Holidays). (DTS Press, 1992)
Gatuskin, Z. L., Miller, M., and Willson, H. (Eds.). Christmas Blues: Behind the Holiday Mask, An Anthology. (Amador Publishers 1995)
Robinson, J. & Staeheli, J. Unplug the Christmas Machine: A Complete Guide to Putting Love & Joy Back Into the Season. (wm. Morrow and Co., 1991)
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